No matter how old or young your children are, I hope they never
outgrow the desire and need to be read to. They will leave the world of a safe and loving
childhood, but the experiencing of being read to is a felt memory that will
anchor them in life. When they have children of their own and they begin the
journey of reading and talking about the day with their children,
all the books and conversations with you will come flooding back.
all the books and conversations with you will come flooding back.
As always, a poem, Talking About the Day by Jim
Daniels, says it best.
Each night after reading three
books to my two children—
we each picked one—to unwind them
into dreamland,
I’d turn off the light and sit
between their beds
in the wide junk shop rocker I’d
reupholstered blue,
still feeling the close-reading
warmth of their bodies beside me,
and ask them to talk about the
day—we did this,
we did that, sometimes leading
somewhere, sometimes
not, but always ending up at the
happy ending of now.
Now, in still darkness, listening
to their breath slow and ease
into sleep’s regular rhythm.
They are
grown, you might've guessed.
The past tense solid, unyielding,
against the dropped bombs
of recent years. But how it calmed
us then, rewinding
the gentle loop, and in the
trusting darkness, pressing play.
p.s. A dad who wanted to read to his 2 children, built this rocking chair for 3. An inspiration for a summer project...
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